oxenstored: use hash table to store socket connections

oxenstored: use hash table to store socket connections

Currently we use list to store socket connections. This is fine for smaller
number of connections. But when we scale up, traveling through a list of
hundreds or thousands of connections just to find a single one of them is very
low efficient.

This patch replaces the list with a (Unix.file_descr -> Connection.t) hash table.

Signed-off-by: Zheng Li <dev@zheng.li>
Reviewed-by: David Scott <dave.scott@citrix.com>